Enlarged Pores?
Friday, August 12th, 2011
Large pores are confusing and upsetting for many people. Hopefully this post will help you get your head around this situation.
When oil and debris plug up a pore, it mechanically dilates. That’s it, there is no other complicated process. When the emotion is removed from the situation, it becomes as straight forward as any other physical dilation. Blackheads, pimples, and oily skin all have the ability to enlarge pores. If the offending agent is completely removed, the currently dilated pore will do one of three things:
It will either retract back to its original size, partially decrease in size, or remain fully dilated. The amount of retraction and healing is usually dependent on skin type, age, and how long the offending agent was in place.
For example, Let’s say you have a large single blackhead in your back for 4 years. If this large old blackhead is removed, chances are it’s going to leave a visible hole. It’s the concept of “wear and tear” similar to older skin or heavy piercings weighing down the skin.
FAQ: What can I do to treat my large pores?!?
While there are many things you can do to improve the cosmetic appearance of your pores, the first thing I recommend is to grieve over the real wear and tear you have just endured. Enlarged pores are similar to 3D scars in that they need to first be grieved over, and then they can be unemotionally and skillfully worked on.
The biggest mistake I witness in the attempt to fix enlarged pores is the lack of understanding of the “offending agent” as mentioned above. You see, if your skin is still active with blackheads, pimples, or even just oily without bumps, you are not yet ready to focus on your wear and tear. Exactly like acne scarring, it’s a stepwise process of first obtaining total inactivation and then cleaning up the aftermath. Any other order of operations will cause repeated failure, frustration, and money wasted on expensive cosmetic procedures.
I’ll outline how to approach the treatment of enlarged pores:
1) You must first gain total control of your oil, blackheads, and pimples. The pores will never start retracting until the dilating force is totally controlled. This control can be obtained in many ways but know that partial inactivation may not cut it in regards to the appearance of pores.
2) You’ll need a daily cosmetic routine that will act to remove the top layers skin around each pore. This will effectively make the hole less visible. (see illustration below) I have designed a special kit for this situation called the exfoliation kit for sensitive skin. It is only intended for those who are in total control of the activity. If not in total control, see the starter kits for acne bootcamp first.
3) If you are still not satisfied with your pore size after you have properly grieved, gained total inactivation, and have a masterful daily cosmetic routine, there are many professional procedures that can be added into the routine. Chemical peels, microdermabrasion, lasers, and surgery are all examples of things you can indulge in if you still can’t find aesthetic satisfaction.
My experience has been that people are not mastering numbers 1 and 2 above. Rather, they are spending thousands of dollars on procedures that are less effective when the other elements are not yet in place. Try to focus on the concept of a “stepwise process”.
(Use the cone illustration below to understand how the appearance of inactivated pores can be improved. When the top layers of skin are safely removed, the orifice diameter gets smaller. Imagine the top sections of this cone being removed at the horizontal lines)

Did that illustration help?
Unlike active skin and inflammation, when working on cosmetic issues it is important to stay non-urgent. There is no rush to get a dangerous or expensive cosmetic procedure. It’s important to grieve over the small trauma that has already occurred and it’s important to set goals that are based in relative improvement with the aim of achieving the threshold of aesthetic satisfaction.
hope this helps,
-Dr. Neal
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January 2nd, 2012 at 9:32 pm
Thanks for the understanding of what and why my 17 yr. old has been battling acne for 3 yrs. Under the car of a dermo, family practice physician and Len and Joe online Dr.s all making suggestions and offering products that don’t make much of a difference. Every now and then his face may look like it’s improving but a day or two later it looks worse then it was. We would be willing to try your bootcamp product if you really have one. Thanks again for your wisdon and insight in this horrific disease. My son said he’s rather have a disease than have acne. Little does he know. You are the 1st person that has referred to acne as such.
January 2nd, 2012 at 9:35 pm
meant “care” not car in line 2 and ‘He’d’ not ‘he’s’ towards the end Sorry
January 8th, 2012 at 5:10 am
I am an African American male and have been battlining acne since the 10 grade, I am now 50 yrs old. It seems that my issue is with ingrown hair and not just acne. I only get the breakouts on by face where my hair grows. It seems because of my African American curley hair; the hair curles under the skin before it break through the skin pores which causes the hair to press against the skin internally and cause acne to accure.
January 8th, 2012 at 10:24 am
hello,
search up “razorbump bootcamp” on the blog to see what is possible for any acne or razorbump situation.
I’ll be here,
-Dr. Neal